So I’m back from Italy. As I obligated myself to post once a month, this is my offering for April. Don’t get too excited, it is fairly uninspired and I have rescued it from the trash twice, only because I don’t want to start again. I am going to be in two upcoming anthologies, which means I have accomplished 2/3 of another of my goals for this year, as well as 1/4 of the blog-once-a-month goal. Just gotta work on those goal pubs. Not bad for an old broad.

Two days before my vacation, I learned that the social media job I like to make fun of that paid for this trip all but dried up, taking half of my income with it. I will manage. I might even find something else. But it made me think of something my friend Aussa, of Hacker, Ninja, Hooker, Spy wrote that a man said to her once, in what I assume was a fit of rejection fury: “I remember mine said I would never actually “become” a writer, that I’d end up being a “dull housewife who gets excited about sending Christmas cards” (..?) and that I’d always talk about “that one time I left the country.”

There is good possibility that was the last time I get to leave the country. I’m not made of money, y’know. I saved up for that trip. I really internalized that comment, for some reason, even before the job ended. What kind of tiny little man says something like that? To anyone? Anyway.

Our guest today is the host of this fine publication, who is here to talk about her recent trip to the Amalfi and Sorrento coast in southern Italy.


Me: Well Hello there! Welcome back!

Also Me: Thanks! You too!

Me: So, what made you decide to take a trip to southern Italy? Are you Italian?

Also Me: No.

Me: Do you know any people from Italy?

Also Me: No.

Me: Was it a spiritual journey of self discovery?

Also Me: No.

Me: Cultural and historical experience?

Also Me: No.

Me: Like to cook?

Also Me: No.

Me: Do you eat a lot of Italian food at home?

Also Me: No.

Me: Did you have to use google maps to even know what direction you were flying?

Also Me: SO DID YOU.

Me: Fine. Whatever. Enlighten us as to why you flew 5,000 miles and came back with a headcold.

Also Me: I wanted to go somewhere interesting that didn’t involve being in a car for 13 hours with my mother and at least 2 dogs and my cousin needed a roommate. So.

Me: Fair enough. So, how did it go? How did that pillow you bought to sleep on the plane work out?

Also Me: I was actually too embarrassed to inflate it.

Me: WHY?

Also Me: Because it looks like a lifejacket for a monkey and the lady in the seat next to me was already looking at me like she wanted to hand me a Clorox wipe.

Me: That was because you dropped ranch dressing down your front.

Also Me: OK but I just couldn’t whip out a weirdly shaped flotation device and start cheerfully blowing into it after that. Although Clorox lady didn’t bring a pillow and she tried to sleep with her face smooshed against the seat in front of her which was kind of hilarious and I thought about offering her my monkey jacket but that seemed like a boundary breach so I didn’t.

Me: Who saw that coming? But the trip was fun, right?

Also Me: It really was! The people on my tour were very nice, the guide was perfectly lovely and the accommodations and the scenery were amazing. It was truly beautiful and I’m so glad I went.

Me: You sound like a paid endorsement.


Me: Soooooooo….how was the food?

Also Me: It was fine.

Me: Fine? Did you eat a lot of mussels and squid? I know how you love those.

Also Me: ………

Me: How about caprese salad? Lots of mozzarella and tomatoes? We always have tons of that around the house. Yep. At least once a day we stop for a mozzarella and tomato break.


Me: That what? That you have the palate of a ten year old?

Also Me: YES THAT EXACTLY. I found plenty of things I could eat. I just had to pretend to like some stuff I didn’t, is all. Shut up.

Me: What were you favorite meals?

Also Me: We had a farm to table dinner in Massa Lubrense that was excellent. The host was amazing, the wine and the food and the presentation were fantastic.

Me: Did they not also serve squid?


Me: *shrugs*

Also Me: There was great food in Sorrento, as well as Naples, and the farewell dinner in Rome was really, really good. I also found some fantastic lasagna at a little tiny place in Naples, literally cooked by a grandma and served by her son and granddaughter. The entertainment was the little great-granddaughter, who was 2.

Me: What was your favorite part of the trip?

Also Me: The hike up Vesuvius and the hike at the Path of the Gods were both challenging, I felt like I had really done something those days. The ruins in Pompeii as well Paestum were fun to look at and learn about. Capri would have been more fun if it had not rained – we missed a boat ride around the island. And the views were spectacular.

Me: Got pictures?

Also Me: I do but if you just google “Amalfi,” “Vesuvius,” “Pompeii,” “Paestum,” you will see 1,600,426,009 pictures exactly like mine.

Me: You just don’t want to download them because you have 4,000 pictures on your phone. And then you would have to label them.

Also Me: BIN-YO!

Me. What was your least favorite part?

Also Me: The five hour layover and Rome followed by a 10 hour plane ride. The coughing teenager I believe to be responsible for this cold was on that flight. I want to go back in time and find him and get him arrested at the TSA checkpoint before he has a chance to board that plane.

Me: Did you learn anything?

Also Me: Yes. I learned that I should eat more simply and be more active. I learned that I can totally handle a European toilet, I learned that I don’t like the word toilet. I learned that my knees are in worse shape than I thought but the rest of me is better. I learned I can go the rest of my life without tasting Limoncello or mozzarella and be just fine.

Me: What did you buy?

Also Me: Limoncello.


Also Me: IT’S NOT FOR ME. Also a dress from Capri that I didn’t try on that I have already given to goodwill after having used it to pad my limoncello in my suitcase. I bought ceramic jewelry and knick-knacky stuff that will be broken or lost in a year but I like them.

Me: How’s that plan to eat more simply going?

Also Me: Great! I just had some pizza from last night. And a mango. Super simple.

Oh, hey, looks like my pictures are 1% downloaded.

Me: Aren’t you going to label them?

Also Me: Nope. Don’t you know how to reverse image search?

Me: Do you feel any better about humanity in general?

Also Me: NOPE









9 thoughts on “My trip to Italy: An Interview

  1. and re fog, I just want to share a story from your uncle Jack when he was working at the New York Post: It was a very foggy day, and the news editor shouted out to the photo editor, “Send a photographer up to the top of the Empire State Building. You can’t see shit.”

  2. How did I just learn you have a blog? I am so glad you enjoyed the trip, though sorry to hear you don’t like squid. All that fresh seafood that was just caught that morning is so delicious. And I love your pictures of fog. Is your bottle of limoncello that one that’s shaped like a woman’s boot with a top that’s impossible to open?

    1. I really did, Christy is a great traveling companion. Hopefully we can do it again. Not a boot, but we did see several interesting bottle shapes, some of them obscene. I bought mine from the farm to table place. I’m just glad it made it home. I do not like the texture of squid or mussels. I like other fish. 🙂

  3. Mmm Lemon sugar booze. Dont forget to get pretty pitcher and lemonade kool aid to put out so looks like drinking that. Also helps in not having to share your supply/stash. Mikes Hard so lame in comparison.
    And you went to Italy.
    How nice. ha.
    Pictures look good but low res thumbnails post not helping.
    Labeling? Toss all of it in a folder labeled Italy 2019 and go through whilst sipping special lemonade. Hopefully take a long time.
    Glad they didn’t keep you.

    1. I’m giving it to a friend, I really am so over it. SO MUCH FREE LIMONCELLO IN ITALY. I know I didn’t take a real camera. Good thing thousands of people have already taken the same pictures. I’m already planning a (probably imaginary) trip to New Zealand.

      1. Tired of quality spirits? Say its not so.
        You are a good friend to share.
        Thousands of photos and still only a few good ones. ”Real” camera is a hassle and so few have any idea how to use them. Cell phone cameras often take awesome photos. The one with the Iron filigree work particularly good composition in my opinion. Better resolution would have been nice though. Damn thumbnail collages.

        Never got to Kiwi-land so that sounds fun. Gorgeous panoramics but takes some travel to get to them- so been told anyway. Hate /despise long plane rides and thats about the longest from USA. Best wishes on that endeavor.

  4. Your unlabelled photos are gorgeous and I’m glad you had a good time. Sounds like the break was a welcome one xx

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